I have been heard about love, relationships, arguments recently. And what does it mean to you?
Its so naturally when it comes to chemical, people easily fall in love, but its not easy to maintain, that's why people get married and build up a family, so that they can maintain their "relationship". But for some, its really not easy. When it doesn't come to marriage, or family, then it would takes you lots of passion, enthusiasm, loyalty, honesty, trust, and hard work. When we are talking about relationship or love, people often make it into holding hands of having a dinner and movie together and go for a walk together, more often they didn't realize the importance of talking "heart". As you can see, relationship fills our emptiness deep inside each human, they share everything, they know each other, open their mind to each one, they kiss, they hug, and they hold hands. There's a chemical reaction.
Chemical reaction doesn't stands long, and when the product has been oxidized or reduced, the problem comes. Some might try their best to shine it again or polish it, or even spraying a layer of super duper metallic on it to make it as nice as new. Some might just let it be like that. Its important to show whats in your heart, so that the other half knows everything about you, understands and walks on with you. Showing each other's heart without faking it means you really want the special person to get into your life, hoping that person does too. Its not easy, when it comes to real and true love, you would always be so weak and no matter what mistake have been done, you would always be the first to forgive. Even without explanation. Love blinds everyone.
For some people, relationship is just a leisure, or...amusement?? Some might have wrote it in a diary and keep looking back to those sweet days. Some might have just "follow the wave and path" and happy go lucky. Whatever it is, loyalty and honesty are two vital points to keep and warms up relationship, so that the right hand would always in your hand. Now in a relationship, its important to give, but never expect to get too much, if you really love someone, here's an advice, be sincere and forgiving, be patient and understanding, but it needs a hard work from both side, no lie, no doubt, and don't grab too tight (now i realized, and its like, ow okay).
Relationship isn't about making love with someone else, having fun time but never share anything, that's a sicken relationship (honestly) and a healthy relationship is when there is interaction from both sides. That's good if you do. You might have asking this on your mind, what?? I don't tell simply everything and it was like "dude no such needs". Seriously, you are wrong, that's the point now we need to tell everything, even friends we make,, or, things we eat..(i do) so that even its distant, we feel each other side by side, so close heart to heart. Be honest, then no problem would occurs. And never give up to explain, its important so that your lover feels you are sincere and meant to be with him/her.
Relationship isn't about perfection, its about right and wills to be together.
(# a message to you: No matter what, nothing changes my heart towards you. Hold my hand, don't let go. Make distance grows love.)
Forgiven, and to be forgotten.
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